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Iris Kelly Doesn't Date, Ashley Herring Blake 14 April 2025

2023 romance, third and last of its trilogy. Iris has had a few long-term relationships, but they ended badly; recently she's been happy with one-night stands. Stevie has an anxiety disorder and is still recovering from a bad breakup. After a disastrous attempt at a hookup, they'd never see each other again, except…

These are romance protagonists who are aware of romance tropes—always a risky thing to do, but Blake pulls it off. Iris is blocked on her second novel and her therapist (everybody in these books has a therapist, even Stevie who's mostly working as a barista) tells her to try something new, so she signs up for auditions at a community theatre production of Much Ado. Which, as it turns out, is being run by Stevie's ex, and Stevie, who's had trouble finding acting work lately, is playing Beatrice.

Since Stevie's friend had sent out photos of the hot hookup before it turned to panic and vomiting in private, all the theatre people recognise her, and when she's offered Benedick, the two have to come up with a story to avoid embarrassment. So it's fake-relationship time, even as they're admitting how silly that whole idea is. But then in turn Iris can help Stevie with being a bit less nervous while looking for a hookup, and Stevie can help Iris with her aversion to long-term relationships…

These are two deeply messed-up people, and for me that's another innovation on a par with Astrid Parker's interior design incompetence in the last book. Most romance protagonists I read may be a bit displaced by circumstances but they basically have their stuff more or less together; they have lives of their own, and aren't waiting for a partner to take them away from all that. (There may be a selection bias here, because I generally like to read about competent protagonists.) But Iris, who learned early on that she enjoyed sex and didn't particularly want more than that, is suffering because her friend group has quickly gone from happily single to partnered up, and she still thinks of herself as the easy lay that maybe she was but people didn't have to call her that. And Stevie's anxiety disorder is controlled much of the time, particularly when she's on stage, but when it comes to making decisions about her own life she's less able to think straight. And both of their friend groups are used to telling Iris/Stevie what to do for their own good, and both of them are getting deeply frustrated with that.

It's rare enough to get plausible female friendships in romances; all too often they leave the woman socially isolated. (Books are better than films for this, as one would expect.) Here we get not only that, but friendships where the friend group isn't always right.

I like these people. I like to read about even the annoying ones. One could start here, but I'd recommend taking the whole series in order.

(Recommended by Russ Allbery.)

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